Among the pleasures of this nearly finished year, a number of our dear friends, Boy, and I were also offered a sobering set of private challenges. We sit here in our kitchen at Darlington House, with the light turning gray outside the windows, and the views to the Catskills blurring, and think fondly of all the people upon whom we depend, who depend on us, and who are connected in meaningful ways with our household and our businesses.
The dawning of a new year is also the dawning of a new day. Noticing that the one and only potted Amaryllis we have this winter was trumpeting its first blossom, Boy whisked it out to the column upon which sits our sundial and snapped this photograph: a colorful bloom against a fading sky.
Happy New Year, Dear Reader.
Photograph by Boy Fenwick
Saturday, December 31, 2011
Thursday, December 29, 2011
A New Leaf for a New Year
We are hurtling toward a new year, so it is time to turn a new leaf.
For many years, Boy has collected early English green feather-edge creamware, circa 1780-1825. He always has his eye out for pieces of it when we are out and about at shows, auctions, and shoppes. Several years ago he bought two leaf-form dishes, likely made to hold sweetmeats, to add to his collection. He found the first—a small and very dearly priced one—at the New York Ceramics Fair. The next day, at a show at the New York City piers, he carried away an almost identical example for a somewhat lower price. A collection within a collection, instantly! The other day, while foraging for vintage ornaments at a decidedly down-market group shoppe, Boy spotted this one, another example of the leaf-form dish:
Our "new" feather-edge sweetmeat dish, ca. 1820 |
We suspect its plain mold and detailing suggest that it is slightly later than our other two dishes. The blue in the glaze of the two earlier pearlware examples in our collection is absent, as is the detailed veining, snipped edging, articulated stem, and raised base. Our newly acquired dish is simply not as finely made or crisply detailed as the other dishes. Also, it is subtly crazed and slightly discolored. Because of these deficiencies Boy almost left it behind at the sales desk. But since he rarely comes across such dishes in his travels, and this one was exceptionally well priced, home it came with us to Darlington House!
The "new" dish, in the foreground, is not as white as our two finer examples |
I hope that our "new" dish will brighten and whiten up nicely once we give it a hydrogen peroxide bath. However, it wil never be as fine as our other sweetmeat dishes, regardless of its condition. But so be it. The dish was a bargain at the price we paid, and it is a happy addition to those already in our possession.
It also lacks the raised base and the sharp edging of the two finer examples |
Tell me, Dear Reader, how do you decide when faced with buying "up" or "down" for your collections?
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
Monday, December 26, 2011
Cheaper By the Dozen
Ornaments, that is . . .
Today, Boxing Day, had us stir crazy for our annual vintage-ornament-hunting pilgrimage to a large bottom-fishing group-shoppe antiques center on the other side of the Hudson River. While Boy captured an early nineteenth-century green feather-edge creamware tidbit (the subject of another post), we scored some individual glass balls and this much-needed box of twelve chartreuse ornaments.
Originally priced at fifty-nine cents in the last century, it was marked at fifteen dollars today—minus ten percent during the day-after-Christmas sale. The Coby Glass Products Co., which made the ornaments, was based in Woonsocket, Rhode Island, according to the short end of the box.
I ask you, Dear Reader, did you find a Boxing Day bargain today?
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
Sunday, December 25, 2011
What We Didn't Do Last Night . . .
. . . was go to midnight service, despite our best intentions.
And, well, here is what we are doing this morning:
Drinking fortified eggnog . . . and preparing our Christmas midday dinner of roast beef, Yorkshire pudding, and haricots verts—from recipes of our dear friend Lindaraxa.
Each Christmas we are the delighted recipients of a potent treat of a secret and time-tested Southern family recipe of eggnog from our dear friends Ted and Betsy Greenwood. They deliver it to their lucky friends in large Ball Mason jars called "Tednog." Today we are consuming the "Tednog" in our secret and unexpectedly "retail red" goblets while preparing Christmas dinner. How is it that we are so lucky to have such darling friends as Ted and Betsy? How fortuate we are!
Happy Christmas to you, Dear Reader, and to yours from Darlington House!
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
Friday, December 23, 2011
Reggie on New York Social Diary Today, Again
Dear Reader, I am pleased as punch to have Reggie's Ten (Little) Rules for Keeping It Together appear today on New York Social Dairy, again.
David Patrick Columbia, the mastermind behind NYSD (along with Jeff Hirsch), published these Rules earlier this year on his marvelous blog (of which I am an avid follower and sometime contributor), and he has re-run them today as one of his year-end collections from the archives of this year's NYSD.
For those of my readers who are not regular readers of NYSD, I urge you to visit it often. While the party pictures and social histories featured are always lots of fun, DPC also shares with his followers thought-provoking and, at times, moving essays and reflections upon life, growing up, and lessons learned. As a case in point, I provide you with a link to a recent essay he wrote, titled Christmas as a Kid, about his experience growing up in a household where all was not always jolly during the holidays, but where the Christmas spirit still shone through. I found it moving, and I believe you will to.
Thank you, DPC!
Image courtesy of NYSD
David Patrick Columbia, the mastermind behind NYSD (along with Jeff Hirsch), published these Rules earlier this year on his marvelous blog (of which I am an avid follower and sometime contributor), and he has re-run them today as one of his year-end collections from the archives of this year's NYSD.
For those of my readers who are not regular readers of NYSD, I urge you to visit it often. While the party pictures and social histories featured are always lots of fun, DPC also shares with his followers thought-provoking and, at times, moving essays and reflections upon life, growing up, and lessons learned. As a case in point, I provide you with a link to a recent essay he wrote, titled Christmas as a Kid, about his experience growing up in a household where all was not always jolly during the holidays, but where the Christmas spirit still shone through. I found it moving, and I believe you will to.
Thank you, DPC!
Image courtesy of NYSD
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Oh, Christmas Tree . . .
A number of readers have asked me to post photographs of our decorated Christmas tree at Darlington House. I am more than happy to oblige, thank you. I'd been planning on posting pictures of it all along, but I hadn't done so as we only put it up several days ago. We are not one of those households that immediately gets into the Christmas spirit the day after Thanksgiving. It takes time for the spirit to build with us. We usually wait until mid-December, at the earliest, to put up our tree.
This year, we (or should I say Boy, since he is the one solely responsible for decorating the Christmas tree in our house) put up and decorated a pale green, old-fashioned feather tree on one of the serving tables in our dining room. We bought the tree last week at Treillage, in Manhattan. I think it is one of the loveliest Christmas trees that Boy has ever done. And that's saying a lot.
This is the first Christmas that we've not had a "real" tree. Even though I have an inborn prejudice against artificial trees, I love feather trees, because they are—in part—meant to look artificial; they're not trying to fool anyone that they are a living tree.
Boy has hung the tree with a combination of vintage and new-ish gold, green, silver, and orange ornaments that we've collected over the years. And, as I described in my recent post I'm Just Wild About Slim, he's also decorated it with dried slices of oranges, a gift to us from fellow blogger Slim Paley.
Boy anchored the tree in a vintage silver-plated ice bucket from one of the great (and long gone) grand hotels. He has surrounded it with a forest of miniature bottle-brush trees that we bought years ago from the late lamented Martha By Mail, placed on little silver beakers and footed bowls atop a snowy-white linen runner.
It's really rather pretty, don't you think?
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
This year, we (or should I say Boy, since he is the one solely responsible for decorating the Christmas tree in our house) put up and decorated a pale green, old-fashioned feather tree on one of the serving tables in our dining room. We bought the tree last week at Treillage, in Manhattan. I think it is one of the loveliest Christmas trees that Boy has ever done. And that's saying a lot.
This is the first Christmas that we've not had a "real" tree. Even though I have an inborn prejudice against artificial trees, I love feather trees, because they are—in part—meant to look artificial; they're not trying to fool anyone that they are a living tree.
Boy has hung the tree with a combination of vintage and new-ish gold, green, silver, and orange ornaments that we've collected over the years. And, as I described in my recent post I'm Just Wild About Slim, he's also decorated it with dried slices of oranges, a gift to us from fellow blogger Slim Paley.
Boy anchored the tree in a vintage silver-plated ice bucket from one of the great (and long gone) grand hotels. He has surrounded it with a forest of miniature bottle-brush trees that we bought years ago from the late lamented Martha By Mail, placed on little silver beakers and footed bowls atop a snowy-white linen runner.
It's really rather pretty, don't you think?
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
A Very Reggie New York Day
While I adore Darlington, I also like taking a break from it every now and then to stay in New York for the weekend. I particularly enjoy doing so during the winter months, when I happily play tourist in my own city.
This past weekend we decided to do just that. Rather than rushing up to Darlington House on Friday as we normally do, we stayed in town to take in some shows, eat out, and do some holiday shopping. On Friday night we (somewhat improbably) attended a rock-n-roll concert performed at the Bitter End in Greenwich Village by a friend and former business colleague of mine. Although I felt a decided fish out of water at such a venue and event, I had a remarkably good time of it, all things considered. I congratulated myself that I could even enjoy singing along to "Glory Days" as performed at the conclusion of the evening, despite it being a complete charade on my part in pretending to do so. All I can say is thank goodness my friend Paul A. was also in the audience and handed me some earplugs at the outset of the show, or my ears would still be ringing as I write this, given the punishing amplification of the evening's entertainment.
Having fulfilled that particular obligation, we crawled back to our apartment with the plan to sleep in the next morning. We lounged around the apartment for a couple of hours on Saturday morning reading the paper and chatting, and then made our way over to our most adored Swifty's for a leisurely, boozy brunch of the famed restaurant's spot-hitting, delicious, comforting food.
Well fortified by doing so, we strolled about the neighborhood afterwards, stopping in at some of our favorite shops nearby, including the exquisite Lexington Gardens, where we always find something pretty and decorative to buy.
Their windows were particularly festive and fun this year.
Our next stop was Treillage, one of a number of the inestimable Bunny Williams' retail outposts in the city.
Our "real" mission for the day was to attend an exhibition at Hirschl & Adler featuring the works of Duncan Phyfe and his contemporaries, which the gallery had just put up in connection with the Duncan Phyfe show that opened at the Metropolitan Museum yesterday.
While we were at Hirschl & Adler we spoke with the ever-charming and lovely Elizabeth Feld, who curated the show. She did a marvelous job of it. I plan on doing a more detailed review of the exhibition in a future post.
H&L's galleries have been stunningly arranged for the show by Liz's father, Stuart Feld, who has displayed the furniture, art, and decorative arts on exhibition to its best advantage. The show is splendid!
Afterwards we dropped in at Spanierman Gallery, hoping to meet up with our dear friend Gina (and Boy's representative) there, but learned that she was out that day.
So we consoled ourselves with a visit to James Robinson, a very dicey proposition indeed.
Although we were tempted to buy a set of silver nutcrackers there that Boy admired, we decided against it, since we already have a number of handsome crackers of our own. And it was a good thing I didn't lose my head and buy the vintage 1950s-era gold, diamond, and sapphire set of studs and links for sale there made by Van Cleef & Arpel that I looked at and admired. I'm not much for men wearing flashy jewelry, but yours truly would have been quite happy to sport these baubles out one night. Since they were twenty-eight thousand dollars for the set, though, I was more than happy—sighs permitting—to give them a "pass."
Not everything at James Robinson is so stratospherically priced, though. They also have a nice selection of enameled men's cufflinks available at only $295 a pair.
Our next stop was Karl Kemp Antiques, where Boy showed me a number of pieces he is considering for one of his decorating clients. It is always such a treat for me to be out with Boy when he visits the Carriage Trade shops, such as Karl Kemp, in his capacity as a decorator to those who have the means and taste to buy from them.
After a quick nap back in our apartment to recover from the day's strenuous efforts, we scurried over to the West Side and met up with assorted friends at Ed's Chowder House near Lincoln Center for dinner. The place was mobbed, but the service was excellent, and the food was too.
Our reason for meeting up with our friends was to attend a Holiday Jamboree concert at Alice Tully Hall of the Yale Whiffenpoofs, the Harvard Krokodiloes, and the Princeton Nassoons, along with a guest appearance by Darren Chris of Glee, where he plays Blaine Anderson, formerly of the Warblers a cappella group.
The concert was well-attended, with most of the seats in Alice Tully filled with the type of people you'd expect at such an Ivy League gathering, and those that weren't were occupied with ardent young female admirers of Mr. Criss, who were more than happy to fill the air with their trilling appreciation whenever he spoke or sang.
It was a delightful concert and a lovely way to cap off a most pleasant day and evening of what New York offers best—fun, food, shopping, and entertainment. The contrasts between the concerts we attended at The Bitter End on Friday and at Alice Tully Hall on Saturday were not lost on either me or Boy. Nor did they detract from the pleasure we took in them individually, I might add. Variety is, indeed, the spice of life, Dear Reader.
I had an absolutely lovely time.
Unless noted, all photographs taken by Boy Fenwick on his iPhone
This past weekend we decided to do just that. Rather than rushing up to Darlington House on Friday as we normally do, we stayed in town to take in some shows, eat out, and do some holiday shopping. On Friday night we (somewhat improbably) attended a rock-n-roll concert performed at the Bitter End in Greenwich Village by a friend and former business colleague of mine. Although I felt a decided fish out of water at such a venue and event, I had a remarkably good time of it, all things considered. I congratulated myself that I could even enjoy singing along to "Glory Days" as performed at the conclusion of the evening, despite it being a complete charade on my part in pretending to do so. All I can say is thank goodness my friend Paul A. was also in the audience and handed me some earplugs at the outset of the show, or my ears would still be ringing as I write this, given the punishing amplification of the evening's entertainment.
The Bitter End: New York's oldest running rock club Image courtesy of same |
Having fulfilled that particular obligation, we crawled back to our apartment with the plan to sleep in the next morning. We lounged around the apartment for a couple of hours on Saturday morning reading the paper and chatting, and then made our way over to our most adored Swifty's for a leisurely, boozy brunch of the famed restaurant's spot-hitting, delicious, comforting food.
Swifty's was all decked out for the Holidays |
Well fortified by doing so, we strolled about the neighborhood afterwards, stopping in at some of our favorite shops nearby, including the exquisite Lexington Gardens, where we always find something pretty and decorative to buy.
Conveniently located next door to Swifty's, Lexington Gardens is a visual treat and sensory overload |
Their windows were particularly festive and fun this year.
I particularly loved this window's display of nut arrangements |
Our next stop was Treillage, one of a number of the inestimable Bunny Williams' retail outposts in the city.
Treillage is just up the street and full of temptations |
Our "real" mission for the day was to attend an exhibition at Hirschl & Adler featuring the works of Duncan Phyfe and his contemporaries, which the gallery had just put up in connection with the Duncan Phyfe show that opened at the Metropolitan Museum yesterday.
The Crown Building at 57th and Fifth, home of the Hirschl & Adler Galleries |
While we were at Hirschl & Adler we spoke with the ever-charming and lovely Elizabeth Feld, who curated the show. She did a marvelous job of it. I plan on doing a more detailed review of the exhibition in a future post.
One of the gallery displays at Hirschl & Adler |
H&L's galleries have been stunningly arranged for the show by Liz's father, Stuart Feld, who has displayed the furniture, art, and decorative arts on exhibition to its best advantage. The show is splendid!
Spanierman Gallery sits on a side street across the street from the Four Seasons Hotel |
Afterwards we dropped in at Spanierman Gallery, hoping to meet up with our dear friend Gina (and Boy's representative) there, but learned that she was out that day.
James Robinson sits on the corner of 58th and Park |
So we consoled ourselves with a visit to James Robinson, a very dicey proposition indeed.
James Robinson is a rather dangerous store to go into if one likes pretty and expensive things, as I do |
Although we were tempted to buy a set of silver nutcrackers there that Boy admired, we decided against it, since we already have a number of handsome crackers of our own. And it was a good thing I didn't lose my head and buy the vintage 1950s-era gold, diamond, and sapphire set of studs and links for sale there made by Van Cleef & Arpel that I looked at and admired. I'm not much for men wearing flashy jewelry, but yours truly would have been quite happy to sport these baubles out one night. Since they were twenty-eight thousand dollars for the set, though, I was more than happy—sighs permitting—to give them a "pass."
A small selection of temptingly and reasonably priced cufflinks on display at James Robinson |
Not everything at James Robinson is so stratospherically priced, though. They also have a nice selection of enameled men's cufflinks available at only $295 a pair.
Boy needed to pop in to Karl Kemp on Madison Avenue to pick up some tearsheets for a client |
Our next stop was Karl Kemp Antiques, where Boy showed me a number of pieces he is considering for one of his decorating clients. It is always such a treat for me to be out with Boy when he visits the Carriage Trade shops, such as Karl Kemp, in his capacity as a decorator to those who have the means and taste to buy from them.
The entry to Ed's Chower House, conveniently located across from Lincoln Center Image courtesy of same |
After a quick nap back in our apartment to recover from the day's strenuous efforts, we scurried over to the West Side and met up with assorted friends at Ed's Chowder House near Lincoln Center for dinner. The place was mobbed, but the service was excellent, and the food was too.
The program for the concert we attended |
Our reason for meeting up with our friends was to attend a Holiday Jamboree concert at Alice Tully Hall of the Yale Whiffenpoofs, the Harvard Krokodiloes, and the Princeton Nassoons, along with a guest appearance by Darren Chris of Glee, where he plays Blaine Anderson, formerly of the Warblers a cappella group.
The Whiffenpoofs assembling on stage |
The concert was well-attended, with most of the seats in Alice Tully filled with the type of people you'd expect at such an Ivy League gathering, and those that weren't were occupied with ardent young female admirers of Mr. Criss, who were more than happy to fill the air with their trilling appreciation whenever he spoke or sang.
The Whiffs were joined by Darren Criss, singing his hit cover of Katy Perry's Teenage Dream |
It was a delightful concert and a lovely way to cap off a most pleasant day and evening of what New York offers best—fun, food, shopping, and entertainment. The contrasts between the concerts we attended at The Bitter End on Friday and at Alice Tully Hall on Saturday were not lost on either me or Boy. Nor did they detract from the pleasure we took in them individually, I might add. Variety is, indeed, the spice of life, Dear Reader.
I had an absolutely lovely time.
Only in New York, kids, only in New York!
Unless noted, all photographs taken by Boy Fenwick on his iPhone
Monday, December 19, 2011
I'm Just Wild About Slim
One of my favorite bloggers in the lifestyle sphere where I bobble about is Slim Paley, whose blog of her fabulous and über-stylish life in and about Santa Barbara, Sun Valley, and other swell environs is a "must read" of mine. She's marvelously funny, wickedly smart, intensely visual, and takes the most gorgeous photographs of flowers, fashion, and interiors, many of her own, that she shares with us, her most fortunate followers. She's a dynamo!
A week ago Ms. Paley posted a series of photos of her Christmas tree, in which she showed that she had decorated it with, among other things, the most beautiful dried slices of oranges imaginable. The moment I saw Slim's Christmas orange slices I was filled with longing to have some for myself. Well, not actually longing, Dear Reader, but rather lust. I left a comment that indicated a certain degree of my covetousness. Yes, Reggie admits that he is not immune to one or two of the Seven Deadly Sins from time to time. He is mortal, after all.
Within but a blink of an eye of my opening the package, Boy began hanging the orange slices on our Christmas tree at Darlington House. He was already well underway placing the vintage (and some new-ish) glass gold, silver, and green ornaments that he had chosen as his color scheme this year. What timing! Boy darted to the basement and retrieved his small rare stash or orange glass ornaments to complete the new palette.
What had originally been conceived of as a Winter Woodland Christmas tree at Darlington House was now transformed into a citrusy shimmer of gold, green, silver, and orange.
I am beside myself with joy.
Thank you, dear Slim Paley.
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
A week ago Ms. Paley posted a series of photos of her Christmas tree, in which she showed that she had decorated it with, among other things, the most beautiful dried slices of oranges imaginable. The moment I saw Slim's Christmas orange slices I was filled with longing to have some for myself. Well, not actually longing, Dear Reader, but rather lust. I left a comment that indicated a certain degree of my covetousness. Yes, Reggie admits that he is not immune to one or two of the Seven Deadly Sins from time to time. He is mortal, after all.
Imagine my surprise and delight when I received a brown-paper package shortly thereafter from Lady Paley containing her gift of several dozen of said orange slices. Not only was the package prettily and cleverly wrapped, but what it contained was as precious as jewels!
Within but a blink of an eye of my opening the package, Boy began hanging the orange slices on our Christmas tree at Darlington House. He was already well underway placing the vintage (and some new-ish) glass gold, silver, and green ornaments that he had chosen as his color scheme this year. What timing! Boy darted to the basement and retrieved his small rare stash or orange glass ornaments to complete the new palette.
What had originally been conceived of as a Winter Woodland Christmas tree at Darlington House was now transformed into a citrusy shimmer of gold, green, silver, and orange.
I am beside myself with joy.
Thank you, dear Slim Paley.
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
Monday, December 12, 2011
Boy Makes a Wreath, Again
This past weekend saw a proliferation of Christmas decorations in the town where we live in the Hudson River Valley. By Saturday evening almost every house in the village had put up Christmas lights, and garlands, and wreaths. Except ours, that is.
We've been rather preoccupied with other things this season at Darlington House. Unlike our neighbors, we haven't (yet) put up lights outside or raised (yet alone even cut and bought) a Christmas tree. We have put out a footed bowl of vintage ornaments, but so far that's it.
On Sunday, Boy decided that something must be done, and took matters into his own hands to raise the Christmas Spirit at our house. Just as he did so two years ago, Boy decided to make a wreath from the evergreens on our property for our front door.
He cut sprigs of boxwood from one of the hedges, bound them in little bundles with floral wire, and fastened them to a wreath form that was left over from a previous Christmas.
That little bulldog head you see on the wall above the completed wreath? That's a cast-iron bottle opener in the form of a bulldog's face, puchased in honor of my alma mater, Yale. Boola-boola!
What a pretty wreath Boy has made for our front door at Darlington House this year! We're going to leave it just as it is, with narry a ribbon or ornament upon it.
We like its unadorned simplicity, naturalness, and purity.
Merry Christmas, Dear Reader.
Photographs by Reggie Darling and Boy Fenwick
One of the boxwood shrubs on our property at Darlington |
We've been rather preoccupied with other things this season at Darlington House. Unlike our neighbors, we haven't (yet) put up lights outside or raised (yet alone even cut and bought) a Christmas tree. We have put out a footed bowl of vintage ornaments, but so far that's it.
Boy Fenwick, preparing to harvest boxwood for our Christmas wreath |
On Sunday, Boy decided that something must be done, and took matters into his own hands to raise the Christmas Spirit at our house. Just as he did so two years ago, Boy decided to make a wreath from the evergreens on our property for our front door.
Little bundles of boxwood ready for attaching to the wreath form |
He cut sprigs of boxwood from one of the hedges, bound them in little bundles with floral wire, and fastened them to a wreath form that was left over from a previous Christmas.
The finished wreath in our gardening barn, ready to hang on our front door |
That little bulldog head you see on the wall above the completed wreath? That's a cast-iron bottle opener in the form of a bulldog's face, puchased in honor of my alma mater, Yale. Boola-boola!
The freshly made boxwood wreath, hanging on our front door |
What a pretty wreath Boy has made for our front door at Darlington House this year! We're going to leave it just as it is, with narry a ribbon or ornament upon it.
We like its unadorned simplicity, naturalness, and purity.
Merry Christmas, Dear Reader.
Photographs by Reggie Darling and Boy Fenwick
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Reggie Recommends: Agraria's Bitter Orange Potpourri
I'm not, in general, a fan of potpourri. Most of what is available today is vile, made of things like artificial peach scented cedar shavings. No wonder it has such a bad reputation.
However, there is one potpourri out there that I love, and which I make a point of buying every year when the weather turns cold and the heating season begins. It is called Bitter Orange, and it is made by a company called Agraria. I recommend it to you, Dear Reader.
It is the most marvelous potpourri there is.
Agraria makes its Bitter Orange potpourri in small batches of fragrant dried flowers and orange slices, cinnamon sticks, cloves, lavender, natural oils, and other exotic organic ingredients. Bitter Orange is lovely—citrusy, floral, spicy, and woodsy. I fill an antique Chinese export bowl with it every year at this time and place it in our drawing room at Darlington House, where its scent deliciously pervades the room.
I first learned of Bitter Orange back in the early 1980s, shortly after it became available in New York. I vividly recall my introduction to it, in the living room of a large apartment on the Upper East Side that belonged to the parents of a classmate of mine from Yale. I remember sitting in a chair in the room and wondering "What is that marvelous scent, and where is it coming from?" and my then delight in learning that it was a potpourri called Bitter Orange from a small company named Agraria, based in San Francisco. The mother of my friend had just bought it at Henri Bendel, the only store in the city that stocked it at the time, and she was quite pleased with herself for having done so.
At the time I had never seen or smelled potpourri before. It seemed rarified and exquisite to me, and I was entranced by it. This was long before potpourri had become a degraded mass-market commodity found in every gift-shoppe, drug store, and big box retailer in America. It was very special, then. Bitter Orange created a sensation in New York when it was introduced to the city in the mid-1970s, where it became known as "the Park Avenue potpourri," as it was immediately popular among the city's uptown smart set.
I had to have it. I went to Bendels at the next opportunity I had and bought myself a box of it. I was shocked at how expensive it was, but that didn't deter me. I simply had to have it.
And I've been buying it ever since.
Agraria's Bitter Orange has spawned many imitators over the years, but none have succeeded in replicating its signature scent or quality. It is unique. Bitter Orange was the foundation of Agraria's subsequent success, and today the company's products are widely distributed, a testament to its vision and the integrity of its offerings. I'm pleased that they have been so successful.
If you are not already a fan of Agraria's Bitter Orange potpourri, Dear Reader, I recommend that you get some, because I trust that you will love it, as I do. But be forewarned: it is addicting.
Agraria's website can be found here.
Please note: Reggie has received nothing from Agraria for making this recommendation, nor does he expect to do so. He is recommending Bitter Orange potpourri to his readers for the sole purpose of providing them with pleasure, his goal in writing this blog.
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
One of our Chinese export punch bowls, ca. 1800, filled with Bitter Orange potpourri |
However, there is one potpourri out there that I love, and which I make a point of buying every year when the weather turns cold and the heating season begins. It is called Bitter Orange, and it is made by a company called Agraria. I recommend it to you, Dear Reader.
It is the most marvelous potpourri there is.
Agraria makes its Bitter Orange potpourri in small batches of fragrant dried flowers and orange slices, cinnamon sticks, cloves, lavender, natural oils, and other exotic organic ingredients. Bitter Orange is lovely—citrusy, floral, spicy, and woodsy. I fill an antique Chinese export bowl with it every year at this time and place it in our drawing room at Darlington House, where its scent deliciously pervades the room.
I first learned of Bitter Orange back in the early 1980s, shortly after it became available in New York. I vividly recall my introduction to it, in the living room of a large apartment on the Upper East Side that belonged to the parents of a classmate of mine from Yale. I remember sitting in a chair in the room and wondering "What is that marvelous scent, and where is it coming from?" and my then delight in learning that it was a potpourri called Bitter Orange from a small company named Agraria, based in San Francisco. The mother of my friend had just bought it at Henri Bendel, the only store in the city that stocked it at the time, and she was quite pleased with herself for having done so.
At the time I had never seen or smelled potpourri before. It seemed rarified and exquisite to me, and I was entranced by it. This was long before potpourri had become a degraded mass-market commodity found in every gift-shoppe, drug store, and big box retailer in America. It was very special, then. Bitter Orange created a sensation in New York when it was introduced to the city in the mid-1970s, where it became known as "the Park Avenue potpourri," as it was immediately popular among the city's uptown smart set.
I had to have it. I went to Bendels at the next opportunity I had and bought myself a box of it. I was shocked at how expensive it was, but that didn't deter me. I simply had to have it.
And I've been buying it ever since.
Agraria's Bitter Orange has spawned many imitators over the years, but none have succeeded in replicating its signature scent or quality. It is unique. Bitter Orange was the foundation of Agraria's subsequent success, and today the company's products are widely distributed, a testament to its vision and the integrity of its offerings. I'm pleased that they have been so successful.
If you are not already a fan of Agraria's Bitter Orange potpourri, Dear Reader, I recommend that you get some, because I trust that you will love it, as I do. But be forewarned: it is addicting.
Agraria's website can be found here.
Please note: Reggie has received nothing from Agraria for making this recommendation, nor does he expect to do so. He is recommending Bitter Orange potpourri to his readers for the sole purpose of providing them with pleasure, his goal in writing this blog.
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
Sunday, December 4, 2011
A Prismatic Morning at Darlington House
This morning I walked through the dining room at Darlington House and nearly tripped over two rays of refracted color on the floor.
No, Dear Reader, a little elf hadn't painted them on the carpet during the night.
The source of the rays was sunlight refracted by crystal prisms hanging on a pair of antique gilt-bronze girandoles standing on either end of the mantel in the room. We bought our girandoles many years ago from Charles & Rebekah Clark, dealers of American classical furniture, lighting, and decorative arts. The Clarks feature numerous examples of similar girandoles on their website.
Before owning girandoles, I had always assumed that the purpose of their crystals—other than being decorative—was to reflect candlelight at night. I was pleasantly surprised to find that they also throw refracted rays of color when hit by sunlight during the day.
There were splashes of color scattered all about our dining room this morning. They are one of the pleasures at Darlington House when the sun travels far enough south during the late autumn and into the winter months such that its light streams through the front windows and creates a play of rays through the girandoles' crystals.
But, like all rays, they are ephemeral and momentary, and just as quickly as they form, they vanish!
No, Dear Reader, a little elf hadn't painted them on the carpet during the night.
The source of the rays was sunlight refracted by crystal prisms hanging on a pair of antique gilt-bronze girandoles standing on either end of the mantel in the room. We bought our girandoles many years ago from Charles & Rebekah Clark, dealers of American classical furniture, lighting, and decorative arts. The Clarks feature numerous examples of similar girandoles on their website.
Before owning girandoles, I had always assumed that the purpose of their crystals—other than being decorative—was to reflect candlelight at night. I was pleasantly surprised to find that they also throw refracted rays of color when hit by sunlight during the day.
There were splashes of color scattered all about our dining room this morning. They are one of the pleasures at Darlington House when the sun travels far enough south during the late autumn and into the winter months such that its light streams through the front windows and creates a play of rays through the girandoles' crystals.
But, like all rays, they are ephemeral and momentary, and just as quickly as they form, they vanish!
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Reggie's Rules for Dining in Better Restaurants, Part II
Oh, la! I realize that it has been almost five months since I published my first installment of Reggie's Rules for Dining in Better Restaurants. Today's essay is the second, and final, installment in the series.
The focus of these rules (and the rules I share with you in general, Dear Reader) is to provide advice and guidance to people who would like to be thought of as courteous, mannerly, and discreet by those observing them—either for the first time, or repeatedly. In other words, to stand in stark and pleasing contrast to the tedious, loud-mouthed, ill-mannered boors one encounters with increasing frequency these days, and who are a noxious intrusion on the lives of well-behaved people who have the misfortune to be within earshot of said cretins.
While I covered the majority of my rules for dining in better restaurants in the first installment of this series, here are the remainder of the rules I was not able to cover beforehand:
10. Don't bring young children with you to dinner in a restaurant for grown-ups
While there are very few of the city's better restaurants where well-behaved children under the age of twelve are not welcomed during the day, it is not appropriate to bring them to dinner in better restaurants where the primary clientele is comprised of cocktail-imbibing grown-ups, out for the evening. If you can't bear to leave your children at home with their nanny or babysitter, then either take them to a different restaurant that is suitable for families, or stay at home with them and eat with them there.
Don't get me wrong, Reggie adores children, and believes that it is more than acceptable to take them out to eat in restaurants—but only to ones where it is appropriate to do so, and only when the child is old-enough, well-trained enough, and well-behaved enough to be able to handle the experience without having a meltdown or making a scene.
11. If you have a petulant or wailing child with you, either deal with it or leave the restaurant with it
Too many of us have withstood the misery of sitting in a restaurant where a parent (or parents) of children allow their little darlings to kick up an unsupervised ruckus. This is not acceptable. If your child is misbehaving in a restaurant (or any other public place for that matter), then it is your responsibility to either quiet it down or take it outside with you if you cannot.
12. Refrain from speaking on cellphones
Don't make calls from or answer your cellphone when sitting at a table in a restaurant. It is rude to your table-mates, and irritating to those sitting nearby who are not interested in listening to you make plans or discuss your personal life with someone on the other end of the line. If you feel you absolutely must use your cellphone, then excuse yourself from the table and go someplace else where you will not disturb anyone.
13. Be discreet when texting or emailing
While Reggie believes one should refrain from using PDAs to check email or for texting while sitting at a table in a restaurant, sometimes it is unavoidable. Under such circumstances, however, he advises that you hold the device on your lap under the edge of the table and out of view, so that others around you aren't made glaringly aware of it.
In closing, I offer you a quote from the website of La Grenouille, one of New York's very best restaurants, and a place where I have been most fortunate to have dined with pleasure numerous times over the years. In fact, I reviewed it earlier, here.
Photographs courtesy of LIFE Images
The art of presentation is a defining feature for many restaurants of the better sort |
The focus of these rules (and the rules I share with you in general, Dear Reader) is to provide advice and guidance to people who would like to be thought of as courteous, mannerly, and discreet by those observing them—either for the first time, or repeatedly. In other words, to stand in stark and pleasing contrast to the tedious, loud-mouthed, ill-mannered boors one encounters with increasing frequency these days, and who are a noxious intrusion on the lives of well-behaved people who have the misfortune to be within earshot of said cretins.
While I covered the majority of my rules for dining in better restaurants in the first installment of this series, here are the remainder of the rules I was not able to cover beforehand:
10. Don't bring young children with you to dinner in a restaurant for grown-ups
While there are very few of the city's better restaurants where well-behaved children under the age of twelve are not welcomed during the day, it is not appropriate to bring them to dinner in better restaurants where the primary clientele is comprised of cocktail-imbibing grown-ups, out for the evening. If you can't bear to leave your children at home with their nanny or babysitter, then either take them to a different restaurant that is suitable for families, or stay at home with them and eat with them there.
It is best to leave small children at home when out for dinner at grown-up restaurants such as this |
Don't get me wrong, Reggie adores children, and believes that it is more than acceptable to take them out to eat in restaurants—but only to ones where it is appropriate to do so, and only when the child is old-enough, well-trained enough, and well-behaved enough to be able to handle the experience without having a meltdown or making a scene.
11. If you have a petulant or wailing child with you, either deal with it or leave the restaurant with it
Too many of us have withstood the misery of sitting in a restaurant where a parent (or parents) of children allow their little darlings to kick up an unsupervised ruckus. This is not acceptable. If your child is misbehaving in a restaurant (or any other public place for that matter), then it is your responsibility to either quiet it down or take it outside with you if you cannot.
12. Refrain from speaking on cellphones
Don't make calls from or answer your cellphone when sitting at a table in a restaurant. It is rude to your table-mates, and irritating to those sitting nearby who are not interested in listening to you make plans or discuss your personal life with someone on the other end of the line. If you feel you absolutely must use your cellphone, then excuse yourself from the table and go someplace else where you will not disturb anyone.
13. Be discreet when texting or emailing
While Reggie believes one should refrain from using PDAs to check email or for texting while sitting at a table in a restaurant, sometimes it is unavoidable. Under such circumstances, however, he advises that you hold the device on your lap under the edge of the table and out of view, so that others around you aren't made glaringly aware of it.
In closing, I offer you a quote from the website of La Grenouille, one of New York's very best restaurants, and a place where I have been most fortunate to have dined with pleasure numerous times over the years. In fact, I reviewed it earlier, here.
"Out of consideration for your fellow diners we ask you to refrain from using cell phones or other devices, and that children under 12 be left in the care of a loving babysitter."I couldn't have said it any better myself.
Photographs courtesy of LIFE Images
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Reggie Out & About: Hermes Mallea Book Signing
Last night Boy and I had the pleasure of attending a book signing party held in honor of Hermes Mallea, in celebration of the publication of his beautifully written and lavishly illustrated Great Houses of Havana: A Century of Cuban Style, published by the Monacelli Press.
The book signing was held at Rural Residence, a treasure trove of a store in Hudson, New York, which was the subject of a post that I did last year at this time. Timothy Dunleavy, the owner/proprietor of Rural Residence, hosts book signings there from time to time, most recently for Hermes Mallea's Great Houses of Havana. Another party for the book was recently held in New York at the 1st Dibs Gallery, and was featured on New York Social Diary, where yours truly is a sometime contributor.
The book signing party at Rural Residence for Mr. Mallea was a great success, full of friends and well-wishers, and so well attended that at times the crowd spilled out onto the sidewalk in front of the store. People were buying books by the armload, and the author spent much of the evening sitting at a table busily writing inscriptions, hardly able to circulate around the room given the demands for his autograph. Fortunately he didn't need to leave his chair as all were there to see him, one by one.
Hermes Mallea and his partner in business and life, Carey Maloney, have a weekend house in the area and we see them out and about at the larger parties in the county. They are charming and pleasant company.
I spent several hours this morning reading through and looking at the photographs in Great Houses of Havana. I am impressed. It stands head and shoulders above many of the decorating and architecture coffee table books that have been rolling off the printing presses in recent years. It is a scholarly, well-researched, and beautifully illustrated tour of residential and civic architecture built in Havana in the one hundred years leading up to the Cuban Revolution. Mr. Mallea writes articulately, thoughtfully, and knowledgeably (he is, by profession, an architect and a partner in M (Group), a design firm based in New York).
Great Houses of Havana contains a lot of information, both written and visual, about the history of Cuban architecture, the island's pre-revolutionary culture, and the colorful and visionary people who built and inhabited the buildings showcased in the book. Great Houses of Havana is richly illustrated with many contemporary and vintage photographs of the buildings and their interiors, and their occupants (including one of Mrs. Earl T. Smith, the wife of the former U.S. Ambassador to Cuba, and who was the subject of an earlier post of mine). Many of the once-private houses featured in the book are today public museums or serve as ambassadorial residences, and appear to be well cared for—in some cases exceptionally so.
Dear Reader, I encourage you to consider getting a copy of Great Houses of Havana, as it is a worthy addition to the library of anyone interested in architecture, design, cultural history, and the fascinating island of Cuba. That would certainly describe me, and I suspect it would also be an apt description of many of the people who read this blog.
You can learn more about the book and its author at www.greathousesofhavana.com
Please note: Reggie has received nothing in return for making this recommendation, nor does he expect to. He is recommending Great Houses of Havana solely for its merits and for the pleasure of his readers, which is why he writes this blog in the first place.
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
The announcement in the window of Rural Residence |
The book signing was held at Rural Residence, a treasure trove of a store in Hudson, New York, which was the subject of a post that I did last year at this time. Timothy Dunleavy, the owner/proprietor of Rural Residence, hosts book signings there from time to time, most recently for Hermes Mallea's Great Houses of Havana. Another party for the book was recently held in New York at the 1st Dibs Gallery, and was featured on New York Social Diary, where yours truly is a sometime contributor.
Stacks of books, ready for signing |
The book signing party at Rural Residence for Mr. Mallea was a great success, full of friends and well-wishers, and so well attended that at times the crowd spilled out onto the sidewalk in front of the store. People were buying books by the armload, and the author spent much of the evening sitting at a table busily writing inscriptions, hardly able to circulate around the room given the demands for his autograph. Fortunately he didn't need to leave his chair as all were there to see him, one by one.
The author inscribing our copy of his book |
Hermes Mallea and his partner in business and life, Carey Maloney, have a weekend house in the area and we see them out and about at the larger parties in the county. They are charming and pleasant company.
I spent several hours this morning reading through and looking at the photographs in Great Houses of Havana. I am impressed. It stands head and shoulders above many of the decorating and architecture coffee table books that have been rolling off the printing presses in recent years. It is a scholarly, well-researched, and beautifully illustrated tour of residential and civic architecture built in Havana in the one hundred years leading up to the Cuban Revolution. Mr. Mallea writes articulately, thoughtfully, and knowledgeably (he is, by profession, an architect and a partner in M (Group), a design firm based in New York).
The party in full swing |
Great Houses of Havana contains a lot of information, both written and visual, about the history of Cuban architecture, the island's pre-revolutionary culture, and the colorful and visionary people who built and inhabited the buildings showcased in the book. Great Houses of Havana is richly illustrated with many contemporary and vintage photographs of the buildings and their interiors, and their occupants (including one of Mrs. Earl T. Smith, the wife of the former U.S. Ambassador to Cuba, and who was the subject of an earlier post of mine). Many of the once-private houses featured in the book are today public museums or serve as ambassadorial residences, and appear to be well cared for—in some cases exceptionally so.
Dear Reader, I encourage you to consider getting a copy of Great Houses of Havana, as it is a worthy addition to the library of anyone interested in architecture, design, cultural history, and the fascinating island of Cuba. That would certainly describe me, and I suspect it would also be an apt description of many of the people who read this blog.
You can learn more about the book and its author at www.greathousesofhavana.com
Please note: Reggie has received nothing in return for making this recommendation, nor does he expect to. He is recommending Great Houses of Havana solely for its merits and for the pleasure of his readers, which is why he writes this blog in the first place.
Photographs by Boy Fenwick
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